Since Nigeria’s return to democratic governance, Obi Local Government Area in Nasarawa State has faced persistent ethnic conflicts that have undermined government-led reconciliation efforts. This study explores the causes of these conflicts, documents victimization experiences, evaluates community perceptions of reconciliation, and identifies factors contributing to reconciliation failures and sustainable peace. Using multi-stage, systematic random, and purposive sampling, 216 respondents—including displaced returnees—were surveyed through qualitative and quantitative methods. Findings show that conflicts are widespread and deeply rooted, with significant victimization across ethnic groups. Major causes include land disputes, farming clashes, and crop destruction. Reconciliation failures were largely due to socio-political and religious manipulation. The study recommends broad-based consultations involving all ethnic groups, active female participation, counseling support for victims, the institution of a universally accepted peace celebration day, and the cessation of political manipulation of ethnic conflicts. These strategies are essential for healing divisions and fostering lasting peace in Obi LGA